Many people across the nation gave different parenting skills that they use on their kids whether they are their own kids or guardians. Many parents are extremely strict so it causes the kids to rebel and do things that they are not allowed to do. While other parents don’t care what their kids do they still end up being rebellious and cause problems. What should the nation do in situations like this if they are going to rebel anyway?
Truth is there are many solutions to this problem. One can be too strict with no rhyme or reason and an cause their children to become confused and the war is on! A parent may say, “Grow up! ” and in the same breath say, “You’ll do as I say because you are still a kid! ” This is confusing to younger people. They are either old enough to take on responsibility and to learn from their mistakes or they are too young to take on responsibility. It’s a real balancing act for parents.
A parent should be strict as far as their children having good manners; learning to be loyal to family and friends; staying power when they feel in their heart meeting is right; getting a good education; following their dreams and you have a right to discuss with them and prevent them from choosing friends that are nothing but trouble. You have the right to be aware of drugs and to make sure your kids understand the outcome of street drugs and also good information about sex.
However, sometimes adults can learn much from the young so it’s to a parent’s best interest to listen to their children once in awhile. Many kids wish their parents were not so strict and would let them party and be out late with friends and not have a curfew because other kids do that. As a result parents end up not letting them go and won’t give them freedom so they end up rebelling doing things behind their back. Other parents don’t want to realize that their kids are growing up and they still want to treat them like babies.
Therefore kids end up sneaking out, skipping school, etc. In another case kids wish their parents were strict because they end up doing stupid things and have to deal with consequences. Not having a curfew can get you in a lot of trouble such as being out with the wrong people and getting into drugs or prostitution. Parents think if they give their kids all he freedom in the world they will be happy, but that is not the case. These children need discipline so they won’t be out partying, or doing illegal things that theft not suppose to be doing.
In many cases teenage girls end up getting pregnant because they don’t have any discipline and they think it’s okay to be having sex because their parents have not explained it to them. Most girls have no idea what they are getting themselves into; its babies having babies. Most parents end up divorcing so it’s hard to raise a child being single, so you end up letting them do whatever they want, because you hind they have suffered enough due to the separation of the parents.
When in reality what the kids need are their parent’s supports to have a nice teenage life without any consequences. This is a issue around the nation right now kids are going to rebel if they don’t get their way. Hopefully in time this issue can be solved and parent will be able to communicate without bickering at their children. There is a resolution to every problem; maybe the future generation will change the ways of partying to you, or getting pregnant to soon, time will only tell.