I believe that making my loving ones happy, makes me happier rather than being happy by hurting them or ignoring them. When I see the beautiful smile of my loved ones because of me, make me happy and feel very comfortable which I cannot find from any other things In my life. From my childhood, I am a person who always observes the facial expressions of people around me while am talking to them. When I see even less negative change on their faces, I feel really upset and talking a lot about what went wrong of my behavior while I was with them.
Even before I do anything I think more about whether this will make happy my parents and people around me. Even in my school time I had a good understanding about my friends. Even though they were not with me most of the times, they used to come to me and share their regrets with me. I try in my maximum to cheer them up when they are down and console them as a friend. But in some moments I had to accept lots of misunderstanding from them as a return instead of thanking as well. I am a person with lots of care about the feeling of my loved ones. I don’t use to say a single word that makes them hurt even I am in angry.
As they know me, every time they want a relief they talk to me. I always am a good listener to them; encourage them to follow what they want. Make them feel appreciated and admiring them sincerely by telling them some the things to make them comfortable and stay with them all the time. When they ask me a help, I sacrifice my own time and being with them to help them. Even though I am with them in every time they need me, it’s really difficult to find anyone to help me, make me encourage when I have fallen down most of the times with their busy schedules.
At such times, I talk to myself and make me comfortable, aka me encourage facing the situation. I know for sure this happens to me not because of they don’t love me but because of their busy schedules. But I love that if they can spend a little time with me when I fallen down somewhere, as I spend my time with them as much as I can whenever they want me. And I love to hear their appreciation of how my help assist them to overcome their sorrows, while I expecting nothing back from them other than their happiness and smiles. But It doesn’t make me sad or feeling bad about them and It Is simply because of I used to be happy by making them happy.
Even though I have experienced lots of difficulties because of this quality of mine, I still don’t want to change it since it is me and one of my qualities I like a lot. Even though there are both good and bad things with this quality, I strongly believe that the one and only most valuable asset of a human being is not the brain with the full of knowledge but the heart fills with the kindness, ears which is willing to listen others and the strong hands to help others when they fall down. This is me and I am happy in million ways when I see the heartiest smiles on their faces because of me. My Guide
By diligently from any other things in my life. From my childhood, I am a person who always observes the facial expressions of people around me while I am talking to them. When I see even less negative change on their faces, I feel really upset and thinking a with lots of care about the feeling of my loved ones. I don’t use to say a single word what they want. Make them feel appreciated and admiring them sincerely by telling because of they don’t love me but because of their busy schedules.