We are all Imperfectly perfect. Ready to start your journey? You are not alone l) Here are my personal tips on how to build self -confidence. It was a long, hard and sometimes painful Journey, but I made it by staying positive. Best of luck to all of you who are looking to find self -confidence. Just remember, beauty is a birthright. Everyone is born beautiful and unique. Self-confidence Is a personal Journey.
We are all going to take different paths, but ultimately, we are all on the same road and we’re doing this together. The word “Confidence” is derived from Latin: it means, “With Faith (Con-With and Fades-Faith) and ability in someone or yourself. There are no right or wrong ways to build self- confidence, because right and wrong are subjective: Everyone is on a different path. The tips I’m giving you are universal. It is going to help Jump start your Journey. TIP #1; remember that “Self-confidence Is Like a Mental Muscle. Like muscle, everyone is born with it and not everyone flexes it and if you want your muscles to grow stronger, you got to exercise so here are my exercising tips: Consciously think costive thoughts, especially moments when you are feeling down. So take a deep breath and remind yourself that life is too short and you got to make the best of it. (Listen To Positive Music) Listen to music that will lift your mood. A good beat sound has been proven to help people In a positive way. Music and sound has been known to help the growth of plants.
That saves a lot! You want to have a healthy habit of maintaining this mental muscle but you also do not want to overdo it: Everything in moderation, balance is key. It is good to remind yourself from time to time how rotor, you know, how awesome you are but, you also want to leave from to grow and improve. I mean, we can all change in a fall for the better. #2 Find Your Qualities. Instead of focusing on the negative which I know can be hard, focus on the positive and It does not have to be a physical thing.
Maybe you were amazing at the Legend of Zelda or you are a brilliant pianist or an amazing dancer, a singer and make great grades at school. No one is perfect at anything and we are all made to be perfectly imperfect. Like a crystal: It is not perfectly cut like a flawless monad, but It’s beautiful in its own unique way. There will not be another crystal like any other and Just Like you, It has many, many facets and you will be discovering more of them as time goes by.
And If you do not think you have a quality, Just ask yourself this simple question: What am I good at? Everyone is good at something and if you do not know where it is, well, then take this opportunity to find it. Sign up for cooking classes, for painting classes, learn how to sing, play some sports, pick up a passion and nurture it, because it helps build self-worth. It gives you something to do and strive for It. Essentially, everyone is on the same Journey.
Find someone you can trust and share your insecurities with. It feels good to bend it out and get it off your chest. And if you feel like you do not have anybody to talk to, Just go online. I mean, it is kind of the beauty of the Digital World. You could find a form or a support group for anything and you could go on there and be yourself and, share your thoughts, your feelings, your insecurities without being Judged and the best part, you are going to remain Anonymous.
I know it is tough, especially with all of these new websites and APS and you know, it is so easy to find a picture or video where it is going to make you feel insecure about yourself, but you have to stop obsessing over the “cannot”s and start focusing on the “what can”: What can I do to improve myself? Everyone is going to take a different path and maybe exercising, back to school, coloring your hair, getting rid of negative friends? I mean, as long as you are physically not harming the person you love, I see no wrong path to take towards happiness.
And my last tip (#4), Pass your Wisdom and gifts onto others. Teaching, caring, and mentoring others is the greatest gift you can give to others and yourself. Not only is your other person going to feel better, but you will to: “Loving others will inspire you to love yourself. ” and you know what? This Journey is not going to be easy. There is going be times when you are going to want to give up and going to feel lost, you cannot continue to go down this Journey and you have to remind yourself that if you want to build self-confidence, you have to… #5 Stay POSITIVE + That is the key.
There is this quote I found that I really like and it goes, “Be like a proton and stay positive +” A positive mind will open more doors. Do not Just lend yourself to one path; Take as many as you need until you reach your destination. And once you found your confidence, enjoy it, savor it. And when you are feeling down, bring that feeling back into your mind. And remind yourself that this is an attitude you own and control. You are all perfectly imperfect. And at the end of the day, that uniqueness and those facets is what makes you special. Love you! Good Luck.